Yes we can not control them, but we can control our selves. Yes he was on the computer. You had no control over that. But you did have control over your comments. I just phoned my W about having to go to the doctor. She seemed concerned. It would have been so easy to say something like "you said you don't love me any more, why do you care?" (I did think it) but I didn't say it. I WAS IN CONTROL. It's hard trying to put your brain in gear before your mouth. Trust me. I have found listening to what I have been saying in the past that I am a very sarcastic person. I am trying to really plan my words now. It is soooo easy to rattle off the first thing that comes. But it is usually not the best thing to say.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
