Did he like the MC (aside from being withdrawn)? Did you think she was making any headway? If you think she would be a better asset to your marriage, then stop seeing her as a MC and let your husband know that you want to be sure that *when he is ready* that the counselor be balanced. Explain that you are finding a *different* IC to help with your growth and helping you find happiness. On the other hand, if you are the one that likes her the most and you think she is a better asset for you individually, keep seeing her as an IC and let her refer you to someone else later if everyone agrees that she has become too aligned with your perspective.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
