chuck, that sounds really good. I'm so glad you guys are having such good talks and that the divorce remedy book is working for you. I don't have that one, I have divorce busting, maybe I should pick that up too? what is the difference?

keep on working at it. sounds like you are doing what you need to, and in a good place even when you find out OM was there. i have to say I cringed when I read she said he was there just to be nice. H keeps saying he is talking to OW because he has noone else to talk to except his therapist once a week (I have friends, my therapist friend, therapist). I call that BS obviously, but its amazing how they think...or at the very least, what they think is a good reason.

good luck!


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher