no way in hell would I personally let him back in until he agreed to both counseling and to showing me that ow is long gone while he is still out of the home. sorry. btdt. it is worse for the kids, at least from what I have heard, to have him there/gone/there/gone. until (if ever) my H is ready to do what needs to be done, and actually shows me some evidence of doing what needs to be done, he is NOT coming back.
good luck with whatever you decide.
Last edited by morgan; 07/23/0702:48 PM.
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