I think I got a hernia on the hike last weekend. I have made a doctor appointment. It's weird I don't know how to tell my W. I have come to a point that I know I don’t need her. I can take care of this by myself. Part of me does not want to come off like I am trying to play the sympathy card. Part of me feels like telling her would be like telling a stranger on the street. Part of me is just plain scared. I had a friend that was going through divorce many years ago. He had temporary custody of his son. He got a hernia and didn't get it taken care of because he was afraid that during his stay in the hospital he would lose his son. He had some complications and ended up dieing.
Why was the first half of my life so easy and now the second half so far sucks
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
made appointment they want me to come in right away. Question. I don't think I am going to tell my wife until I find out more. After all she is not my wife she is my "House mate"
Am I playing games?
husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hubby - I don't know. I'd have a really hard time not telling my H about something like that. I guess is depends on your R. My H and I still talk A LOT about stuff and he would be a big supporter.. Can't imagine keeping a health problem to myself at this point even if you are just getting it checked out.
I will call her (I'm at work) about 8:00am when she gets up. I have an appointment at 1:30 today. I don’t go to the doctors very often and I am a little nervous
Thanks for the prayers Husband.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
You WILL be fine im'e sure of that. You are strong so this will be nothing to you and something you can just fill your wife on in passing (as if it were not a big deal).
Good Luck.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I to believe that God helped me find D/B and the books too. I stop by at the monastary a few times a week. One of the problems in my marriage was that my huband got away from God and only cared about making money and materieal things not his family. it is so true that money corrupts.
