Maybe if we put the shoe on the other foot for a while she can see how it feels
Make plans, but don't do what she's doing -- which is being childish and disrespectful of your rightful feelings of concern for her by not calling you. Let her know that you're going out and about when you'll be back. Tell her it's so she won't worry if she gets home and you're not there. Leave it at that.
As for asking her to let you know she's safe, eesh, I don't know what the answer is to that. Seems like the standard DB answer would be that's going to be seen as an attempt by WAW to control the situation and push her away. To me, it seems like a rational request to someone you love to let you know that they're OK. WAW, any insight on that one?
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
