Mentally, I was where you are now months ago. I'll echo WAW, don't set any boundaries, you'll push your W away. I kept pushing my W with the R talks, IT DOESN'T WORK. Don't do it. WAW is right, no one is making you sit at home. Go out. You want to get your W's attention, plan something without her on a night she expects you to be home. Go see a movie, play, go to a bookstore, whatever. Just start living your life again. To be blunt, you're going to have to anyway at some point. You may as well start now. She might come back, she might not. Always staying at home, waiting for her, probably isn't making you very attractive to her right now either. It's a reminder of all those bad things us LBH's do -- cry, beg, plead, talk, cling. Be yourself. Be independent until your W wants to be interdependent with you again.
Hang in there, man, I'm pulling for you.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
