WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[Not Much Left]

Hey WAW
Sorry it went this way. I have read thru your comments "carefully" and the one thing i see is that you WON'T talk to him because why again?, he is just self centered and wont listen? Or you cant get out what YOU want to say? Just not clear i guess. that is our problem, my W just wont talk to me about the R at all because she feels like she cant, which is crap.

I am not in your head, but if you are willing to just pitch it all, why not just say "look pal, here is the deal, here is how I feel, if you would shut up and listen we might get somewhere, if not we are done". Seems to us LBS's you hold all the cards so what does it hurt? it does not get any better with him if you take the Separation/ Divorce route so why not? It hurts too much? Just say it, it can only get better from here so again, why not?