My BIL called me this morning. My H's grandmother is in the hospital and had surgery Thursday of last week. My H and I went to see her Friday and she seemed okay. Well this morning my BIL tells me that she's been moved to the ICU for something related to her heart. My H started his new job today and I don't know how to reach him there. I sent him an email and I called his cell. So far I haven't heard from him. I don't know what else to do.

Things like this just makes this sitch harder. I love his grandmother and if she doesn't make it I'll be very sad. So will he but I don't know that he'll let me be there for him since we aren't together.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07