Hi HB - H just told me last week that he wishes the A had never happened. However, he also said that he feels guilty for bringing ow into a R because of all the pain she is going through(even though she's the one who initiated it so it's her own darn fault!). He also now sees that ow filed for D because she was partly hoping that she would end up with my H. So, he feels guilty about THAT as well. Seems like your H said something about not wanting to hurt the ow too, didn't he?
Half the time I feel like I can't remember what we talk about since the conversation seems to go in circles!