I agree, do you have anything more? Is she asking for changes and have you done any of these? Are you seeing a MC?

My W and I have been living in separate bedrooms for about 2-3 mos. She says she wants to separate but hasn't done anything yet. I want to work things out. She wants to be a WAW I think. Don't think there's OM but she is just angry that I never responded to her needs to improve our relationship but have done a 180 the last 2-3 mos. But I'm reaching the breaking point -- either come work with me on this relationship or move out. But maybe I shouldn't put this ultimatum on her. What do you think?