Congrats on the baby step Catfan. I see that you have been separated since the fall of 06, or three months more than me. That gives me hope. I want to stick it out as, like you, I believe we will survive, but then again there are days where I have a difficult time having hope. Seeing your thread gives me more hope. Good luck.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM