Congrats on the baby step Catfan. I see that you have been separated since the fall of 06, or three months more than me. That gives me hope. I want to stick it out as, like you, I believe we will survive, but then again there are days where I have a difficult time having hope. Seeing your thread gives me more hope. Good luck.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM