Can you tell me how is he having cake? Yes only on two occasions since I kicked him out has he sat down to eat dinner w/ us. I have longed stopped giving him sex. If u read my old thread u would see how many times I had turnrd him down.
You would see how he is using the kids to get back in & has even told them mommy does not want me to move back in. I told him I thought it was too soon.
Keep him from cake eating is exactly what I am trying to do.