Can you post some details about your situation? If you do it'll help the rest of us understand it better and be able to help you.
Separation isn't a bad thing, in fact it can be a very good thing because it gives you both the time and space to think without the pressure or pain associated with the situation. Oh I can tell you it sucks big time but it can also be a very positive time too.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa