I know. I kind of dread the day I snoop to find a smoking gun and he would say,"Yeah, you found me out. So what. I already left you." So, I will stop snooping. It is really hard with mail, friends, family, internet, etc. It takes discipline to stop people from saying something. I noticed that most people stay quiet when folks are together. Once they hear there is a separation rumours come out of the woodwork! For example, my H's coworker told a friend who told my best friend that he was trying to go out with ther roommmate last year when he got drunk. True/ False? Who cares. I don't wanna hear about it.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."