Being Asked to Move Out - a Deathknell?

[mkultra]

I have asked my H four times to move out. Each time he refused saying it would have to be me. The last time I/we were so fed up and he finally did. I really regret it because the physical separation moves couples towards divorce. That is really not what I wanted. I wanted a more kind and centered and present husband. Now that he has moved out I realize how nothing that I really wanted can be achieved from a separation. I hope you both can realize that a separation is a huge mistake if the desired outcome is a better relationship.