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789 #1140183 07/23/07 02:14 AM
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After my last post, I had a call from wife, she asked me to come over for dinner. Well that was the worst dinner of my life. I was informed she filed for divorce. Suppose DB'ing is now done.


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S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07




789 #1140193 07/23/07 02:40 AM
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Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry to hear that. Depending on how you feel about this it doesn't mean you HAVE to give up. I know it seems bleak and over but the future isn't set in stone.

Geesh I wish I had something inspiring to say. Take care of you and your S.


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789 #1140194 07/23/07 02:42 AM
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After my last post, I had a call from wife, she asked me to come over for dinner. Well that was the worst dinner of my life. I was informed she filed for divorce. Suppose DB'ing is now done.


That's terrible. I'm sorry to hear that. How long to process the divorce? You might have some time to turn things around...


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marshall1982 #1140197 07/23/07 02:48 AM
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As far as I know it is 6 months from the date of filing. Not sure at the moment I want to turn it around. I have a long history of aches in my heart, not really sure that I care to prolong it anymore.


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789 #1140198 07/23/07 02:50 AM
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As far as I know it is 6 months from the date of filing. Not sure at the moment I want to turn it around. I have a long history of aches in my heart, not really sure that I care to prolong it anymore.


I'm with you, too. After being on this site for only a month or so... I'm seeing that I don't have the patience that most of you all do. I don't have kids in the mix, so the desire to save it is only at a minimum. Regardless of your decision to stop DB'ing, I hope everything turns out okay.


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marshall1982 #1140200 07/23/07 02:52 AM
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It is not that I don't want it to work. I have a messed up past, and this will be my second divorce, one kid with each. I just cannot handle it emotionally any more.


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789 #1140206 07/23/07 03:03 AM
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I'm sorry to hear this news. I know this will sound a little hollow right now but the best thing to do is keep GALing and working on yourself.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

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catfan #1140215 07/23/07 03:16 AM
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That is part of my problem at the current moment. I don't want to. I don't actually care at the moment and this is a lonely place to be right now.


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789 #1140245 07/23/07 03:51 AM
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Oh man..7...not you too. I'm so sorry to hear it bud. If you need to talk you know how to get a hold of me via myspace and email. Use it bro.


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"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
NMHurting #1140267 07/23/07 04:26 AM
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Thanks NM, I sent you an email or two.


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