If you want to save your marriage then do so. If you haven't done so get DR and read it. Do not beg, plead, cry, or pursue him. I know that's the first instinct but it will do more harm then good. You're going to need lots of patience. Time is on your side.
Believe nothing of what he says and only half of what he does.
I'm sorry I didn't respond with more but at the moment I don't know have much advice to give. I'm kinda having a sad day. Other's will respond with more advice I'm sure.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07