Unfortunately with her shenanigans and spending of funds she's wiped me out....I must work a lot to restore business and don't have funds to hire a nanny!
The kids are devastated...one mine, and one hers....I may have to relocate....it's sad...they will be raised the way she was raised...many think she may ask to give up custody and maybe by then I will be back on feet financially.
One counselor/author Mentioned above was nice enough to email me and said for me to invite her to house but only if she was signed up for therapy. Unfortunately she is too busy with boyfriend for that...I had suggested a retrovaille weekend but they insist on affair being over! (as mentioned...she has been MUCH busier than ONE affair also!).
Everyone is losing but boyfriend today!
She put on a great act for 9 years! I thought I had my soul mate and she had a drinking problem(of course as I put in notes on another post here...I NEVER opened my phone records(avoidance?).