I am so sorry, and oh how I get what a blow that must be. I haven't been there yet, but that is my fear...one of my top fears, actually. every time h has the kids and they go somewhere, they come home and tell me how they made a new friend, etc, and I'm scared to death that its OW's son, that they are having Happy Family days together.
honestly, I think its a really crappy thing to do. I told H that I don't even want them meeting her until papers are signed. as of right now, at least as far as I know, no papers are in the works. hopefully he will respect that. I just can't accept my kids being exposed to OW until they have to be...certainly not until we are D.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
