"I just want my marriage too. Like we all do I guess. This hurts and it's sad and there's not a thing I can do to insure my marriage. It's out of my control."

- my sentiments exactly!

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM