Strange, I don't know how things are where you are as far as the law, I assume you are not in the US since you called me mate, might be wrong, not the first time, been there before, if so I apologize.
Didn't mean to give you any false advise about filing, I just told you what a lawyer here in my town said, that may not apply everywhere or here for that matter, in my eyes D lawyers are vipers, no offence to any other lawyers out there.
You should just keep doing what you are doing, don't pull any switch, just do what you think is right. I know the mixed emotions, they tell you one thing is right, one day, then the next day it's all wrong, you need to think clearly and weigh out all the decisions of your actions. If our W's did this, maybe neither them or us, would be in this shape, now. Take care, Thanks for all your help on my sitch, I will continue to check in here on you, too. We are all in this thing, together, and there is safety in numbers.