I am in a similar situation as well. I have sworn to my wife that I will change and make things right around the house. She is skeptical becuase she has asked for five years and everytime it goes back to the same old routine.

I still have my wife at home but the distance is killing me. There are many other factors I believe are keeping her here but I am trying to use them to my advantage.

The two things that have been drilled into my head is that this is going to take time and take care of yourself. There is no prescribed timeframe for success on any of this or that it will work at all. Second, take care of yourself. If you can display the changes you want to make to save your marriage and your wife is still open to saving it then it should work.

It is a tough road ahead. I started with this website last week and it has helped me tremendously. It is a place to vent as well as find help.


Me=29
WAW=25
S=2
"I need a break" = 6/07
Filed = 12/07