H sees it as wrong, says he feels guilty about it and yet is convinced that given the same circumstances and feelings about our M, he'd do it again. Maybe just fear of his own weakness and wanting to prevent it in the future by not ever being in that same situation??
Once again, my H said the same thing...but he hasn't taken any time to figure out why it happened...so I wonder the same thing...how can you believe that they won't cheat on you again when they don't even know why they did it the first time. I really believe with my H...he ran into a conniving, manipulative woman and fell into her trap and that is why he ran away from his life with me. But with his personality and obvious weakness towards women...I believe he would have cheated on me multiple times during our marriage and I wouldn't ever have found out, but this OW made him crazy...hard not to notice. The bad thing is...we are all going to continue carrying around the fear of another man doing this to us for the rest of my life.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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