Thanks everyone for the support and nice comments. I didn't think that I could concentrate well enough to pull this off either, so God must have helped me out.
I went out again last night for a few hours. A couple of my high school classmates were there. I was talking to one of the guys, and his first question to me was "Where is your WORSE half?" (Mike just mentioned last week about me being my H's better half..I thought this was kind of ironic). My response was "Long gone". He said "I'm sorry to hear that..I didn't know". Does anyone have any good responses in sitch's like this? I don't have any intention of running my H down, but I'm not quite sure how the best way to respond is. I don't want to put my H down, but I also don't want people to think that I gave up on this marriage.
H was in town this weekend for one of his friend's weddings (he is actually one of my classmates too). I haven't run into him and I hope I don't. I was sort of concerned that he would bring OW with him, but I just don't think he has the guts to take her to a wedding around here when he is still married to me, but he did a lot of things that I wouldn't expect. Everyone would know that she was OW. I'd hate to be in her shoes. Good thing I'm a decent person with morals, so I won't ever have to worry about that.
Tomorrow is my appointment with the attorney. If all goes well, I will be signing the D papers this week. I really think that it is time for me to move on. I deserve better than this. I've been doing pretty well...not much crying which is always a good thing.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
