I know the GIGO rule, despite my (mostly feigned) inability with computers.
It just depends on which way you want to read the book, Atlas. In the section on the "After the last resort", it clearly states that losing your credibility in such an all or nothing sitch is tantamount to showing that you are not worth being with. Also, I do not beleive that I am doing this to be right, just for the sake of being right. LEt's face it, I am doing this totry and give her the chance to work this out between us, no matter how it ends up.
She is of the feeling that her R with OM is not an affair, just because she is living at MIL's house. I informed her, calmly if you can beleive it, that no matter how she has felt and for how long, she did not make the decision to leave until she had started her R with OM. This makes him part of our sitch, and fair game for the D. Her decision.
I alos pointed out that her R with OM is not only putting her R with our S at great risk, it is also putting OM's R with his kids at risk. Apparently she met his kids over Father's day (what a scumbag to do that to his kids, after all it is only the second time they have seen each other in person). I hope there is some shred of humanity left in her, but if not, then not.
