Well lets face it, it can't get any worse, the marriage that is I may as well just carry on riding this crazy old ride. I have control of my own life & live it to suit myself. I could give up on the R & it would be dead & gone, but would it, there's no magic switch to throw. So why not just see how it goes & move with it. If the end product is, the R is dead then it is what it is & in this time i've moved on.... I'm moving along with my life & if my W decides that she wishes to hitch a ride any time soon, then all is good....
Whatch this space, because in a few days i'll come back crying I want my W back LOL