PG - congrats on the Retrouvaille program. My W and I also attended and would agree it is a great program. People should be made to attend this weekend BEFORE getting married, in my opinion. Unfortunately for me, my W came out of that program and moved out the following week claiming that although I was her best friend, she 'did not have that feeling of love for me' that other spouses seemed to display and discuss at the end of the weekend. Good luck to you!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM