You're right, and as Michelle writes 'you can't do anything with the information anyway'. Unlike you however, my snooping has found an emotional attachment (almost school-girl like) to some guy in NJ (we live in the midwest) who she meet at a trade show. It appears to be nothing romantic, but definetly a crush (she has his name as her password at work). Additionally, I have unfounded a PA with some guy who evidently has a serious girlfriend already (so in addition to cheating on me, she is the OW also - this is NOT the woman I married!). Lastly, it appears she met another guy and has a crush on him.

Sounds like classic MLC. It is hard to go on, but I am trying and continue to hold out hope. I am confused as to why she would ask me to go out to dinner. I know it does not mean she is coming back, but I can't help but believe she still has some feelings for me. Then again it will give me an opportunity to display my 180's.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM