My Light Your Fire CDs coach in how to handle that emotional attachment sitch so I tried it. It actually worked for a while. I told my H that I understood why he had to hang out a lot with "Mr. Jerk". He was trying to be a loyal friend to someone in need. I added that it would make me feel better if he did not spend so much time with him because I feared he was a toxic misogynist but that I had faith in his choices for what was best for our family and "Mr. Ass's". It really did put the ball in his court. God, I hate those innappropriate relationships. Even if there is absolutely no attraction it drains from the primary relationships or marriages. When are people going to realize that?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."