Where does he sleep?

[mkultra]

It really does put the kids through the ringer. He has pretty much detached. He acts as if it does not matter if I am there or not.

Hey Indy, we are in the same sitch with the "Playing House" scenario. My H also gets extra bitchy afterwards in a stubborn attempt to remind me that we are not a happy family. It is sad because we actually act happy and not for the kids. We have a similar sense of humour and the same values so we can talk about those things. It is the practical stuff we cannot talk about. His parents are also staying at his Aunt's this week. They will act in denial too. No one dares confront him about where he spends his time. Most likely vagabond couch surfing. I really doubt he is sleeping around. Not because I know him anymore, just because of practical reasons.