1. You don't need to be mysterious about your GAL activities. If you have interests -- great.
2. Do not put a CD on with romantic music. That's chasing.
3. Telling her, "You look Hot" is fine. It's bad boy behavior. She needs to see the dangerous guy in you. You are way too nice.
4. REgarding the finances. If her affair is going to bankrupt you, tell her to make more money ot scal back on the calls.
5. You said...
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She said that I looked angry and thin and felt bad that I haven't been doing things for myself. I replied 'Maybe I look angry because that's all you concentrate on and I'm thin cause I don't have much of an appetite'.
Dude -- that's being petty. Stop it.
She's noticing that you are pissed off and not taking care of yourself -- as you have guessed, that's not attractive. That's whay you must GAL.
6. Don't read relationship books in front of her. That's sending her a signal that you are consumed with saving the relationship -- it's a form of chasing.
