Ok Olive

here is my "high light" of the book today.

Once you got married, that sense of mystery disappeared. You saw each other every day and knew how the other person slept, dressed, even brushed their teeth.
Yet some degree of mystery and surprise is always necessary in a relationship. It’s the spice that tantalizes your partner and encourages him to stay interested in you. If you are always doing more new and exciting things, (like man panties) your partner will be curious and want to know more. That sense of not knowing you completely will reignite the feelings he had when he first started pursuing you.


I see this happening

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know