20 Years Down.....and I'm Confused

[peacetoday]

Hi Bam
Its all so confusing..some say dont become too closed off and distant, others say keep going..You do seem really strong..maybe its just about finding the right balance that works for you..
I also find in my situation that when I get distant, H distances more..My DB Coach suggested to see what brings them closer and make mental notes..But sometimes in this tunnel nothing really works at least not on my timetable
Good luck
Peace