Thanks Lin. I always want to hear from you because I need your encouragement and advice. I appreciate your "straight talk"...that is what I need to hear. I agree with everything you said. I am trying this weekend to make baby steps. My H worked today...yea! However, when he got home, it was kind of late and anyway, I sat in the front room to watch tv for a while. He sat there a few minutes and then he got on the computer. When I am not on the computer, it seems like he is. But anyway, he must be either trusting me again or just trying me to see if I am going to backslide. By that I mean he is not "checking me out" on the computer like he use to do. He leaves me at the computer a long time instead of coming in every few minutes to see what I'm doing. I had the entire day that I could have contacted anyone I wanted to or went into any adult place I wanted to....nobody was around. But, I didn't! I feel like that is a victory in itself. I did gain a little ground today, even if I didn't spend the time with H that I thought I would. Tomorrow is another opportunity to do that.
I have been reading a lot about on-line affairs and the addiction to that. I seem to fit the bill. It happened so slick and so easily......before I seem to realize what was happening.
Well, thanks again, sweetie. Love hearing from you. You have a good weekend also.
Sandi2
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
