the guy I am seeing now is very much focused on my pleasure or really very much focused on getting pleasure from my pleasure. That is what I like to hear. Like I said, the little home made, armature porn, I did watch, it was difficult to tell how much fun they were having. I saw a couple of women really hang on to the guy (H-W I assume) and those women looked like they were being really cared for.
I would say the potential pleasure would be pretty much the same as the potential pleasure of doing one of those wild swing dance moves where you run across the floor and jump up on your partner. I sort of understand why that happens. Not too sure about some other moves.
So I'm like a really fun toy for him. And I guess he is a fun toy for you. Just hope for your sake he is not a player.