Being Me, so sorry you are feeling like this but it is something you will have to sort through. Have you told him of your desire to separate? If not, you may want to be very direct and tell him that if things do not change, in regards to your needs being met, you plan to separate in X amount of time. Let him know what he has to do. Then give him time to do it! BUT don't use separation as a weapon or tactic, only tell him if you really are ready to separate. Remember too , not to make this decision based on your feelings of today alone, really be sure this is what will be best for your life. I know I don't need to say that but I am anyway. It's too important a decision. I'm thinking of you tonight. You've been a great help to me, I hope I can return the favour.
