Imagine how intrigued he would be if you came home that late and were "too tired" for a booty call.
Now THAT idea I like a lot. It doesn't come off like I am punishing him or purposefully pushing him away; just that I "can't" muster the energy. (Too bad I enjoy it as much as he does, but I guess if I have to take one for the team and long term goals, so be it.)
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing