Madonna/Whore Complex - Part 6

[Heywyre]

He's not unreasonable but he would definitely see my actions (if I was to call her and/or threaten her in anyway) as unnecessary because he would say there was no harm in it, he told me about it, she's 150 miles away from us, he has no feelings for her etc. etc. - you name it, he would have an answer (aka excuse)

But I totally see where you are all coming from. I think I will bring it to his attention this evening. It has been bugging me ever since he told me. Now, it is GREAT that he told me because even though I would have seen her call on his cell bill (which I did) the two times that she called (that he told me about) and left VM messages don't show up as such, they just show as an incoming call, billed to his number and no number from where they came from so had he not told me, I would never have known they were from her. Now, having said that, I presume that is what he was looking at last night before he handed the cell bill over to me. He seemed to be checking it quite thoroughly. I wonder if he clued into the fact that unless he answers the call, it doesn't show up. If she leaves a VM and he calls to retrieve it all it shows up as is him call the message centre - so she could have called numerous times on this cell bill and I would never have known it. I guess time will tell if he continues to tell me (another reason for maybe letting it go another month) - should be interesting at the ST appt Monday