Hmmmm, CVA. Well, if you are a "doer" then I guess you can't follow the great advice I gave you too well. And you seem to already realize how your frantic way of doing things and complaining about things did not help your R. So now I don't know what to tell you. I will have to think on it for a while.
That is great how your W initiated chatting w/ you today. Great baby step!