sexual compatibility on the basis of sheer physicality
I have to say I go along with almost all of what you are saying.

Being almost a foot taller than BB overwhelms her if I am on top. Then add in she is claustrophobic, doesn't like any weight on her, bruises if a volley ball hits her leg, and generally likes every touch to be very light.

It makes it so I have to tread ever so lightly when I have any physical contact with her. No bucking bronc or ride-em-cowboy activities and back massages have to be light. BB prefers a feather tease to almost anything else.


Pile driver question.
I can imagine the position. My question is what pleasure is in it for the female? I could think bragging rights, that you could do it. But aren’t other positions much more pleasurable?

My thoughts are, why do it mostly to please a guy? I haven’t been in the position of being one who tends towards living in the "enchanted cottage" of fantasy and monkey-brain sexuality One problem I have with porn in movies is, although the female might act like she is having a good time, I don’t see the guy that much for her pleasure. I see please the guy at almost all expense with the female putting in most of the effort (acting).

Just wondering.

Lou