WC,

You can say no to all those things she is trying to get from you without filing for divorce. I am behind on your thread, but I recall from an earlier post that you were thinking for filing to shock her into her senses. That is trying to control her.

Nomo

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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