Yeah H even told the girls that he wants to move backin but mommy won't let him.

I guess the reason I say PIG is b/c most men on this board have adviced me from the beginning to stop giving him sex (before I kicked him out)b/c he was having sex w/ two women if I kept doing it he will not stop the affair, why should he when he is getting what he wants from TWO women! SO at the begining I was weak too. This was where we had not trouble in-sex department. I was always very sexual & he admitted that we were good there.

But I really wasn't trying to tease on purpose the other night b/c I had my robe on and normally I do not have my PJs on but it was late when he returned w/ the girls.

I did learn frromn all of this that H want me to experiment more sexually,something he never told me about but now says "I should have known"...hmmm don't you guys complain you aren't mind readers??? i know i am generalizing.... but my thing is has all the excitiment started to wear off now thats been 5 months living w/ her?

His affair was a strong EA first and I know they had a good freindship. So I have to build a freindship up since that is where we lacked (communication).