DVA: I dunno. Had to work this morning, just got home. Gonna take a nap, then go to a crab boil with some friends. Ummm, Crab.
Rj: Thank you, dearheart. GAL isn't going too bad: I've got the above mentioned social activity tonight, have lost over 7 inches off my waist in less than 3 months (Though I never did quite reach my goal of 40lbs lost, I've started gaining again but in all the right places), I smile a lot, am closer to my parents tan I have ever been, and generally take pretty good care of myself.
As far as an update goes, I called W's cell phone for the 10am call with S. She did not sound at all happy, but I sure did. If I had to lay odds, this week will be hard: She will go see OM, I will sue for divorce with all the bells and whistles, and many, amny people will be irrevocably damaged by the process. But I will always know that I tried.
P.S. When I did the "5", she of course claimed that she felt like I was trying to control her. I stated that that was flatly ridiculous, as no one controls her but her, and I was merely trying to explain to her the consequences of her decisions. I know such a statement flies in the face of basic DBing, and that I may be more concerned with being right than I am with saving my marriage, but come on: She wants me to give her the house, full primary custody of my son, an "irreconcilable differences" divorce, and basically just disappear. Now, I ask you, who's trying to control who?
