Unlike you R, my H and I really didn't ahev much of the freinds thing. That was our boggest prombelm in the M. We argued constanlty. At first I was the passive one for the first two years. Then after that I became just like him (its tru what they say after while it can be catchy). We knew how to push each other's buttons. Resentment came in big time. We no longer knew how to talk w/out fighting. The BIG 180 4 me was that- to stop reacting when he would push my buttons. It was liek he would getoff on upsetting me. So before I kicked him out. I stopped the fighting back. The peace started very well in out home. H even had diminished his cursing around the girls & in general!! Things at home started to change for the better,but the OW would not give up, so I set im free.
So our freindship was not all that, BUT our passion & our lovemaking was ALL that!!! That was one thing H admitted after the bomb. H said we never had a promblem in that department.
Now the latest, last night the girls noticed H had all his clothes from OW's house in his car!!
Like Theo says- set him free!!! It's tru what Dr. Dobson says. Check out his website. He wil see what real life is w/ OW & get sick of it & miss your family home.
