Husband, I just wanted to say that Theo's right about the OM. And you know you wouldn't want to see his family hurt, too: which is exactly what would happen. Let that destruction be entirely on his shoulders.
You had me laughing about the bikini briefs. If you can't beat up the OM, without ruining all the patient work you've done so far---at least you really have that feminine psychology down pat. You really know how to weird a woman out. Those panties of yours are likely to give W something to think about all day. And she probably won't say a word about them.
Next time, throw in a pair of very fancy women's panties. You'll REALLY get her thinking. You may end up driving her to the brink of insanity, using only panties.
TAL--I read your post above, and I'm so sorry for what you're going through.
