Cadesmom thank so much for your reply. I have the Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy books which I read everyday.I also talked to Laurie Chapin one of the Divorce Busting counselors on Wednesday. She had alot of good advice. She told me not to call him anymore or not to invite him over for 1 week. She also said dont say anything that is not going to make the marriage better.
I know I have to go out and get my own life but I find this difficult. because I am a shy person and my husband was my whole life.I know this wasnt good. I dont have many friends either. I plan on going back to school and getting a part time job, full time when my son goes back to school.I know I need to stay busy or I get depressed about the situation and find it difficult to be happy when H comes over.
How is your marriage going? What is your situation?
