I sure hope she's not your best friend anymore, but that sucks, "losing" your best friend and your H at the same time. However, your H is the one you need to work w/ to get your M back if that's what you decide.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10