i found out about my husband having the affair about 2 months ago, affair going on at least 10 months. I found out 2 days after I asked him to leave. A week later I begged him to move back and he agreed. He was home about 1 month but I kept asking him about affair and would have panic attacks when he left for work in the morning not knowing if he was going to meet her. He couldnt take it any more and moved back to his apartment. He has been there for about 2 weeks now and me and my 13 year old son really miss him. I havent been calling him asking where he is like I use to for the past week. I am trying the 180 degree technique and it seem to be working.When he calls at night sometimes he sounds sad. Im hoping that he's missing us. During the day though he's busy with work and seems happy, I hate that. it is just difficult to have patience and not get angry. He kisses me when he comes over and when he leaves. But sometimes I think hes just stringing me along. W-47 H-49 S-13 Married-19years Together-29years
