Sorry if I wasn't clear. The guy who ran off with Cherishers's wife doesn't show his face around here for obvious reasons, nor does his ex-wife. I have no idea how they're doing.
Cherisher does get on here every once in a while and he says he's fine now.
Oh. I misunderstood. I thought the other guy was still hanging around. Thanks for the clarification (though the original behavior is still outrageous).
Originally Posted By: JR2007
Come back work on it sincerely, and figure it out together. If you come to the conclusion, TOGETHER, that you don't belong together, fine! But don't make a unilateral decision based in High emotion that will ultimately change your life forever! Take some time, talk about it, don't argue, don't blame, don't look to the past (you can't change the past) and talk about what the future might look like. Talk about what you both want out of the R. Make it very specific and see if you match up. If not, well at least you gave it a valiant shot and didn't bail without taking a long logical look at things.
You are so right. Too bad you're preaching to the choir. Both individuals have to be willing to engage in that kind of frank discussion, but I don't think his WAW is willing/able to do so.